WHY I DO THIS WORK
Some of our deepest wounds are sexual. Often these wounds are so deep or so old that we don’t even know they exist. They shape our lives, control our emotions and cloud our judgment. People often think that wounds only come from bad experiences. The experience is simply the experience; neither good nor bad. The experience could be a hurtful statement from an adult figure when we’re young, fear of a vengeful unloving God as taught by a religion or a child’s misunderstanding of an ordinary experience. The wound is what we take away from the experience. The wound could be as simple as a belief that "sex is bad", your sexual behavior is "wrong" or that masturbation is "sinful". Some wounds are, of course, from obvious traumatic emotional experiences. Sexual wounds require sexual healing. This is what I’m offering…sexual healing in a safe environment.
Please understand that in doing this Sacred healing work, I’m healing some of my deepest wounds in the process. It’s been said that our earliest wounds determine our life’s work. This is certainly the case for me. I was born in a small, racist town in Alabama and raised in the Baptist church. I spent much of my childhood praying for my desire to masturbate to cease because the church told me it was wrong. In later years when I recognized my attraction to men, the church was there again to tell me I was going to hell because God couldn’t love me for that.
As an adult who has expanded his spiritual views and is following a spiritual path, I have come to recognize that those teachings, while well intentioned, were very harmful to my psyche. God (the Universe, Spirit, Allah, Buddah, Love, Light, Creator, Goddess…whatever name you call it by) is simply an energy and not an old gray haired man sitting in the clouds and passing judgment. The energy is unconditional Love. In short, God IS Love. All religions agree on this. How then can anything but love be associated with that entity? It is my desire to help those I work with learn to love everything about themselves and to allow pleasure (the feeling of Love entering the body) to come to them in many forms…unconditionally.
Some men wonder if this experience makes them bi or gay. The answer is no. It doesn’t make you anything. Straight, bi and gay are simply labels. They limit us by their very nature. As humans we judge and label things in an attempt to understand them. Pleasure has no gender, it simply is. So ultimately we are either open to pleasure or we aren’t. When we can simply "BE" and accept pleasure in whatever form the Universe offers it to us, that’s when we are truly living. We are truly accepting life at its fullest. That’s what I hope this experience helps you to do, open and accept pleasure without judgments.
To find out more about me, my experiences and the lessons from them, more insight into my work or the messages that I have to share, please visit my blog at peacefulmichael.blogspot.com/2009/03/welcome-to-my-blog.html.